Instead of...

• Instead of leaving a flyer in my door, come over and chat with me in my yard.
• Instead of yelling at me about hell, point me to some hope.
• Instead of inviting me to your church, invite me to your den.
• Instead of promoting the morality of your political party, lift Jesus up to me.
• Instead of pointing out what's wrong with me, tell me about God's love for me.
• Instead of focusing on converting me, make the attempt to connect with me.
• Instead of moving on to the next victim when you don't catch me on your first attempt, actually want to be my friend.